Poor Choices Leads To More Poor Choices

I get home from work last night and my sis had sent pictures to my phone. One of her and the girls. One of a wedding chapel sign. I thought Oh no. :( and then one of her in a white dress and some guy. So I called her and got no answer. I called mom who didn't answer but did eventually call me back. And yes my sister got married on Friday. To who you ask? Mom says his name is David and that is all she knows. Who is this David person? I have never heard of him, but now he is going to be another "daddy" figure for my girls. What is she thinking? Which brings me to my thoughts on that......

Some people are born into hard lives, with no money, a poor education, bad side of town.... Some people choose that life. The "rode hard and put up wet" look. As far as I can see, my sister has chosen this path. Why? Poor decision making skills. She just makes BAD choices.

Maybe this guy is the answer to all our prayers. But I don't think so. As things can go very poorly for her now. I look to the darker side. She'll be physically and mentally abused and then later, if not sooner, so will the girls. Because here in reality gifts from God don't show up in a week like that.

I mean really. She's been divorced for 3 months. How many boyfriends in that time? I agree with Doug now. There's no God in marriage, just "The Man". So why do it. There's no point.